LET ME WALK, LET ME FALL

The one thing which we don't like is to see someone we love in pain... We tend to give many advises, we expect them to do things which are right. As a parent even as good friend or as a lover we always want our kid, friends or lover should  be happy..That is really a good feeling.. But in this process we sometimes forget we need to allow them to walk in their life the way they want only then they will learn something. As we can't stop a small baby to walk just because we know he will fall.The same way we cant stop people to make choices in their life. It's like a new step, new learning. Just because we are afraid that the other person will suffer we cant stop them to take some decision. The most important thing which we all need to learn is let the other person do whatever they feel is right. You can guide them for the right direction but you cant stop them walking in some direction. Let them decide what they want to do in their life. As their loved ones you can always be with them whenever they need you but you cant tie them with your wishes,expectations and beliefs. Once will start doing this i think will be very happy and will be able to help the other person also.