Love

IS 

    

          surrendering yourself,  without any expectations.

            giving everything and not demanding in return. 

             being better and stronger person day by day

           Forgiveness and trusting yourself and people.

In life it happens so many times in a bad relationship, or after a break up or with all the fight one starts loosing their confidence, start loosing on self, getting more bitter about the life and people in it. not trusting in love or not trusting in people.

Is that really a love?

No that is not love. Because love will not break you or will make you a bad person nor will give you negativity love will always make you strong. And if we cant learn that thing from loving someone then may be we have not learn to love yet...

Salvation Vs Cycle of birth

What is more beautiful?

salvation or the cycle of birth and rebirth.

"God! give me salvation"

I have heard this many times and may be many a times i have desired this but now if  i am thinking then i realize that isn't this cycle of birth and rebirth is more beautiful than the salvation. I don't know what salvation is. Or how does it feels but isn't this birth of human is so beautiful that god himself took birth on this earth not a single time but again and again just to feel the emotions and just to get the experience of the life. 

And that's what made me think that how much granted we are taking our birth as a human. Through this we are able to understand all the feelings. we are able to do good and the bad things. we are able to learn things. Because of this birth as a human we able to understand, learn and act. 

With the salvation we will be some kind of Audience who is sitting in the balcony and thinking oh! this character is so good and that one is so bad. If I would have been there i would have performed in a better way or may be in a different way.  

It's important to take rest before every new drama but not participating at all, there is no fun in it. Fun is in participating, sometime you perform good and sometime bad and then you learn form that.  And life is just like that

I remember a good dialogue form movie that "system ko badalne ke liye system me rehana padata hai." 

So if we want to see world as a better place to live then we will have to come back again and again to make it beautiful. And to learn something new all the time so that our next performance is better than our last.

"God! Give me Human Birth Always."

In- Dependence

INDEPENDENCE-It is the Freedom from the control, influence, support, aid, or the like, of others.

Being independent means we are free, we can take our own decisions and we can do whatever we want to...

When we are dependent on someone we can blame or give credit to the person who is influencing our life. But when we are independent we are responsible for our actions. If we are doing anything good we are to be appreciated and if we are committing any mistakes we are to be blamed. Like every coin independence has two sides. At one side it’s the feeling of freedom and on other side many responsibilities.

It has been 65years now that we are independent. So many years back people of India saw the dream, dream of being independent.

Our tricolor flag symbolizes dream our ancestors had for the future of our country. 

"Deep saffron" at the top, white in the middle, and green at the bottom. In the center, there is a navy blue wheel with twenty-four spokes, known as the Ashoka Chakra.

The saffron stands for purity and spirituality, white for peace and truth, green for fertility and prosperity and the wheel for justice and the motion. 

This is what our ancestors had thought about the future of the nation-- where there is, purity, spirituality, peace, prosperity, justice and motion means the changes, progress.

But today after so many years of independence do you feel we have been able to achieve any of these things?

Today instead of purity and spirituality we are debating on casteism and racism, instead of peace we have terror, instead of prosperity we have poverty &corruption, and instead of justice we have illegality. And do you think we have progressed further? A wheel who can take us forward can take us backward also and i think we are moving in a backward direction. 

We became independent, but do you think we took the right path to go ahead so that we can give the justice to our flag, to the dreams of our ancestors? 

Before our independence we could blame britishers for the situation of our country but now whom to blame?

We are now under the influence of more critical things like corruption, injustice, poverty and terrorism. 

And what do we as a citizen? Now we blame our politician, our government. We give many excuses. But if anyone to blame is we.

Definitely today is an imp day coz today we became independent. We should celebrate our freedom but today we have to sit and reflect what we did in the past, and how we can make our future better for ourselves and our generation. 

We always talk about changing the country but that will not happen till the time we will not make changes to ourselves.

How many of us have given 100-200rs extra just to avoid ganapati queue and go and take darshan immediately. Who has time it’s better to give 100rs and take darshan. We have given money for the donation for the admission of our kids.We Purchased tickets of the movies in the black. Give some extra money in government offices so that our work gets done fast.

Is it not the corruption which we are encouraging?

How many times we end up in the fight on the road on small things. We end up in physical violence with our friends, colleague,roadside people. We become aggressive on some sensitive topics. 

Isn’t it the violence the terrorism which we going towards?

So many times we say that my religion is better than others or my god is great. 

Isn’t it we forgetting spiritualism and forgetting that the god is one and  encouraging casteism? We categories people so many times. By doing this we promote casteicm.

We consciously and unconsciously do all these things and promote them. 

We who talk about female independence don’t teach our sons to prepare food and make our girl to learn that saying how much ever you study you will have to cook why we don’t do this with our sons?

We who talk about justice finds out the ways to support the wrong things our relatives or friends are doing. We give them concession.

So if we want to make changes in our country we will have to start form ourselves. We will have to improve first ourselves then our family, then our society and then only the nation will progress. Otherwise we will spoil the opportunity which we have got and we will keep on blaming one or the other person for our situation.

I will say that today is the perfect day; we will all make little contribution form our side to improve little things in ourselves. See that, such a big difference our little efforts will make. 

Don't be IN-DEPENDENCE GO FOR INDEPENDENCE

 

Lose control

Most of the time 

we try to keep control over 

our lives and lives of the others..

Anything going out of the way 

we get upset,angry. 

 We want life 

to go the way we want. 

But we forget 

most of the happiness 

and thrill of the life lies 

when we are out of control. 

Imagine the excitement 

when you go to an amusement park 

and sit in some ride, 

There are so many twists and turns.

And you absolutely 

have no control over it.

And how much you enjoy it. 

How much thrill is there into it. 

Life is same 

with many twist many turns, 

many ups and down 

if you want to enjoy this 

then you have to just forget 

about the control part. 

Just loose your all control 

and go with the flow of the life 

and see how beautiful it is 

and how thrilling the ride is.

LIFE IS A SCHOOL...

Most commonly asked question is god why me? Why i have to suffer. I have not done anything bad nor have thought of it then why i have to suffer. where in people who commit so many crimes, who do evil things, who are corrupt they live happily. And the most common answer to that question is may be in last birth we must have done some bad karmas so we have to suffer in this birth. 

But this is not true. God doesn't punish us. He just want to teach us the right thing.The reason behind all our suffering is to learn something from it. When you touch the fire then only you know what burning is. When you fall then only you know what pain is...

Life is a school and God is our head master. He wants us to learn.But important thing to know is he doesn't want us to learn anything and neither something wrong. He wants us to learn what is correct and what is important to progress. In school as you go from one standard to the higher one your studies start becoming difficult. The same way as our soul progress from one stage to another our lessons start becoming difficult. The way teacher doesn't give some difficult question to solve to a weak student cause he wants that student to solve easy things first the same way life teaches us. And as always if you are brilliant one then you get the difficult one to solve. The more difficult questions you solve more you start learning and more knowledge. So now if you feel life is not fair with you, please stop thinking that way. Because you learning something very important. 

But But But,learn correct and right thing because if you not taking what is correct then you wasting your time and how much ever you work hard you will have to repeat the lessons.

So Friends All the very best for most important lessons of your life. Hope you all will perform good... 

Happy Guru Purnima...

A guru is the one who liberates us and with whom we are in deep love, faith and reverence. A guru is a presence. Through him one gets the first glimpse of divinity. A guru creates, transforms and gives a new birth to a seeker so that with complete trust one can follow his guru while traveling through many unknown paths and doors and opening many unknown locks..

On this day I would like to thank you my guru for changing my life and inspiring me... 

LET ME WALK, LET ME FALL

The one thing which we don't like is to see someone we love in pain... We tend to give many advises, we expect them to do things which are right. As a parent even as good friend or as a lover we always want our kid, friends or lover should  be happy..That is really a good feeling.. But in this process we sometimes forget we need to allow them to walk in their life the way they want only then they will learn something. As we can't stop a small baby to walk just because we know he will fall.The same way we cant stop people to make choices in their life. It's like a new step, new learning. Just because we are afraid that the other person will suffer we cant stop them to take some decision. The most important thing which we all need to learn is let the other person do whatever they feel is right. You can guide them for the right direction but you cant stop them walking in some direction. Let them decide what they want to do in their life. As their loved ones you can always be with them whenever they need you but you cant tie them with your wishes,expectations and beliefs. Once will start doing this i think will be very happy and will be able to help the other person also.

For you dear friends